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A man of letters

by Vicki Jeffels on November 2, 2012

I’ve spent the morning with Son racing around getting his A level results verified for University. He’s applying to university in Sydney, spurred on by the thought of a great reputation, excellent course, and no doubt sunshine, women and beer. red_postbox

I’m right behind him, thinking that it’s the perfect solution to the university problem, and even more so because it will cost him exactly half the amount of money the same university education will cost him here in the UK. It’s all very well having a student debt of £50000 when you intend to earn and be able to pay it off in pound stirling! The moment you move back home, Down Under, that magically becomes an $100k debt! And that’s a hell of a lot for an 18 year old.

So I played taxi as I drove him around getting the documents signed and then returning him to home base so he could swipe one of my envelopes from the business stash I keep on my desk.

It hadn’t occurred to me that he would require any more assistance, so I fired up the laptop and started writing blog posts and checking Twitter streams. The first sign of trouble came quickly.

“Is this right?” he asked as he scrawled the address in the top left hand corner of the envelope. I tried to ignore the fact that the letters looked a little like a ransom note, written by a half-pissed spider.

“Hmm. Yes.”

Resisting the urge to make him write it again. He’s 18. A young man. He doesn’t need my help! He even does his own washing.

“Arrrrgh,” he muttered loudly and screwed up the envelope. Cock-up. Oh well, there’s another twenty envelopes in the packet.

He checked and double-checked the papers, and then with me.

“Is this right Mum?”

“What does it say on the form?” I prompted.

Nodding he reread the instructions, checked them against his masterpiece, sealed the envelope and was gone up to the post office to send it.

He returned about an hour later with lunch and a triumphant smile, this young man who was born in 1994, and has spent almost his entire life online.

“Well that’s the first time I’ve posted a letter,” he announced.

Dumbstruck, I couldn’t reply.

 

Should we add writing and posting letters to the list of everyday skills this online generation no longer need to master? What other skills are likely to become obsolete by the time the next generation has grown up?

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  • http://www.anitalophile.com/ Cathy

    I love this Vix. Wow the first time he has posted a letter. I hope he gets in :-) All the best for your son.

    • vegemitevix

      It’s amazing isn’t it. Really scary and a hell of a surprise. But when I think about when would he have needed to previously? He’s sent countless emails, and he’s a whiz on the computer and torrents and a whole heap of stuff his geeky Mum has no idea about, but a letter? Why would he need to? He should get it he’s a really clever lad, and with his cousins studying at the same Uni it seems the right place for him to be.

  • http://twitter.com/headspaceblog Katriina

    Holy crap! But yes, I believe it! It was all very well for us, having grown up before computers and email (the internet was something I didn’t find out about until long after I’d finished school). I remember having to practice addressing an envelope on a page of my school notebook, and I wrote and posted lots of letters between then and my mid-20s. After that, though… when do any of us ever send letters anymore? Christmas cards is about my limit these days.

    • http://twitter.com/headspaceblog Katriina

      btw, all the very best of luck to him! I hope he gets in!

      • vegemitevix

        Thank you, he’s a really bright cookie so we’re thinking positive.

    • vegemitevix

      I know. I even remember typing out envelopes for application letters! But considering I even emailed my invitations to my wedding (in the form of a slideshow) and never send Christmas cards I can completely see why the online generation might never have practised this skill.

  • http://www.catchingthemagic.com/ Sarah

    Hope he gets in, that would be awesome! My girls are totally growing up without much interesting in posting letters – preferring e-mail, Skype and the instant online world. They also show a disinterest in handwriting. But then – that’s their world (and I feel ancient when I start mentioning to them that the Internet didn’t exist when I was a child and there was no e-mail or Skype)… and instead of a mobile phone I always had 10 pence coin in my pocket to phone home from a telephone box!

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