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Looking the other way

by Vicki Jeffels on June 16, 2013

It felt like a hit in the solar plexus.

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Nigella – from fanshare.com

I’d just finished laughing online about my domestic weekend making soup and pizza and calling myself Nigella when the photos came through on the internet.

Nigella being throttled by her husband, 70 year old Charles Saatchi.

And there it was, the evidence – as if I needed any – that domestic violence occurs in every strata, every class, every marriage – celeb or not – and it is brutal.

Wealth, beauty, charm, talent, and even fame will not shield you from it, necessarily.

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Too much coffee?

by Vicki Jeffels on June 14, 2013

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O darling bed, how I love thee. We must get together more often. Luv & kisses Vix xx

I am almost shaking with excitement. Little sparks of energy are throbbing in my veins and my eyes are wide open. It’s Friday afternoon and I’m wired.

Relax Mum, I’m not drugged to the eyeballs. There’s no reason to call an intervention – unless you wish to do so. And if you do, please make it happen in a cafe with industrial strength coffee. Syringe optional.

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Kiwi Kitty Killer

by Vicki Jeffels on June 13, 2013

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Monty aka Monteith the Monster. Public Enemy Number One. Are you afraid?

Grumpy cat might want to turn to another web page, because this is not pretty.

In fact this is serious. Fabulous felines are under attack from the unlikely but deadly…

Kiwi Kitty Killer

aka

New Zealand financier Gareth Morgan. 

He rose to prominence recently as his ‘Cats to Go’ campaign really grabbed the NZ media with little sound-nuggets like this:

“That little ball of fluff you own is a natural born killer.”

and..

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The dark shadows were undefined.

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Shadows with fins.

What kind of danger lay beneath the surf?

“I think it’s just seaweed.”

“Are you sure.”

“Yup” I said definitely. But I wasn’t.

We plunged into the water gasping back the salty brine, splashing and thrashing with delight. Just like the swimmers in Amityville. Later with glasses of ruby red in hand we surveyed the day’s photo stream. The beautiful beach at New Chums sparkling as if laid with diamonds, the walk through the native bush with Toi Toi and Flax flowering, and then the shots of the steely blue water, iced with spray and populated with dark black shadows.

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Oscar Wilde once said the worst thing wasn’t people talking about you, but rather people not talking about you. I love Oscar Wilde, but in this I think he’s wrong.

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Ask me no questions and I’ll tell you no lies.

In our post-Internet age where reputations can be irreparably destroyed with a few clicks of the send button, people saying the ‘wrong things’ about you, can be devastating. Especially if you are young and vulnerable apropos a teenager.

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London for Big Kids

by Vicki Jeffels 6 June 2013

My friend Val is getting excited about her upcoming family trip to the UK. I don’t blame her, she’s going to see one of my favourite places in the whole world – London.

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The view from the Vegemitevixen’s flight on the London Eye

Of course, I don’t feel quite as excited for her about their plans to go camping in the notoriously chilly English ‘summer’.

But as a help I’ve gathered together a few ideas of things to do and see beyond the obvious attractions – Her Maj, the double-decker buses, The Tube etc.

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How to pack for a new life

by Vicki Jeffels 4 June 2013

Here’s the setup – You’re going to start a new life in another country, and you’re leaving in two month’s time. You are allowed one 20 kg suitcase per adult and the rest will have to be shipped. You are moving to a Western country but the season is opposite to the one you’re in now, you will know few people (if any) and you will have no furniture or household implements beyond what you can stuff into your suitcase.

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What do you pack for an expat life? Image: credit: masochismtango via Flickr CC

So, what do you pack?

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Thank God it’s Friday

by Vicki Jeffels 30 May 2013
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Wearing the gorgeous necklace Monique from Unique Nique made me.

My mate Simone at Great Fun 4 Kids got me thinking the other day, with her Gratitude project, so I decided that I would take the TGIF motif and repurpose it into a  Gratitude project of my own. You see, as much as I would like to think that I am fiercely independent and don’t need anybody, I speak bollocks.

I do. And I guess I always will.

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Waiheke Wedding Anniversary

by Vicki Jeffels 29 May 2013
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Oneroa beach on Waiheke even beautiful on a grey day

My Englishman gave me a priceless gift for our fourth wedding anniversary, it out-trumped mine.

I had been consulting wedding anniversary gift lists and discovered the traditional wedding gift for the fourth wedding anniversary is fruit and flowers – fruit for the boy and flowers for the girl, I assume.

So I racked my brain. Fruit. What kind of fruit. An Apple – no not that kind, can’t afford that kind. A fine pair of pamplemousse? (Oh la la!)

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What an English house guest needs to know in New Zealand

by Vicki Jeffels 28 May 2013

My Englishman has been here for five nights and he’s starting to feel very much at home. photo

Especially as the NZ weather has turned frigid just for him. It’s currently 10 degrees in Auckland, and it’s COLD. (Yes, Northern Hemisphere folk it is cold!) It’s snowing down south, which admittedly that’s like saying I’m in London and it’s snowing in Edinburgh.

But feeling at home, takes soo much more than the weather!

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